I wasn’t prepared for the politics of getting a dog. Wow.
Since I got my new suburban accessory, a cute little half-Pomeranian, half-Shitsu ball of fur called Kozy the Dog, I’ve been asked by a lot of people where I got him. I guess that because of my general liberal sensibilities, people assumed that OF COURSE I would go to a shelter rather than a pet store. And when they found out that I actually did the horrible, awful, convenient thing of buying a dog at a store, I got this look like I’d just wrenched a baby seal from the protective comfort of her mother and clubbed her to death.
Listen, I get it. I tried very hard to get a shelter dog, did all my research online looking for the kind of dog I wanted, put out feelers in all the local shelters, but it just didn’t happen in time. I wanted a dog for my wife for a Christmas gift, and I guess that’s when demand is high and supply is low, because the shelters just didn’t have the types of dogs I wanted available in the time I needed. Yes, my deadline was arbitrary, but, well, I wanted a stupid dog to give to my wife for Christmas. So sue me.
So I went to pet store, run by some very nice people in the area. Took my wife there, we looked at the dogs, fell in love with the Kozy dog. He was maybe, probably the result of a puppy mill, which I think is terrible. But nothing I could do about that. He was already alive, already there, nothing I could do about that. Again, go ahead and sue me. I found a dog I liked, and I got him.
The backlash literally started the same day. All excited to have our new puppy, and committed as usual to supporting small local businesses, we went into a local store to buy some doggy stuff — food, some bedding, etc. So the guy behind the counter, old guy, not the friendliest of local proprietors, asked me where I got the dog. And when I tell him, he sneers at me, “Oh, I just don’t get it — people who sell dogs,” in the kind of tone that someone might say “Oh, people who sell human body parts.” And he points to some dogs that I guess his store shelters part-time, two dogs that God-Bless-Their-Poor-Hearts-I-Hope-Someone-Adopts-Them look like the kind of beasts that should be applying to guard Hades, and tells me that i could have gotten those dogs instead of buying one at a store. Given that I just wanted a small dog, and that I don’t own a junk yard that I’m trying to guard, it wasn’t really an option. Strike one.
So then he asks me what breed it is. I tell him what the sign said when I got him, that it was a “Pomshu,” which is this cute little name that people have come up with for half-Poms, half-Shitsus, sort of that whole “designer dog” idea. Another sneer: “Oh, so he’s a mutt.” Okay, fine, I probably did sound a little like a jackass, but that is, in my defense, what the stupid sign said. Fine, he’s a mutt, I have no problem with that, but it bothered me that he thought I did. Strike two.
And then to add to my cavalcade of consumer happiness, he asks how old he is. My wife tells him that the dog is about three months old, and he shoots back, “well, I guess he was there for a while, that no one wanted him.” That would be strike three.
So, basically, we didn’t buy anything. One local business that I don’t need to support.
Again, I get it. I love dogs. I love animals. I don’t like people to exploit them. I’m not about to throw blood at people, or forswear eating meat or wearing leather, but I’m in that squishy middle ground that most people are in. So if I could have gotten a shelter dog, I would have. But I couldn’t, at least not the type of dog in the time I wanted.
You want to revoke my “good liberal” card, then go ahead. But I just wanted a dog for my wife, I wasn’t trying to save the world. I gave a chunk of money to my local shelter in Kozy’s name, I’ll give another chunk next year, and that’s my contribution.
In the meantime, excuse me, I’m going to go clean up some poop.
